This matter na small matter na... E clear say wetin the boko want na wetin oyibo people dey call "one night stand" and e still clear say you no want that kind thing. So e dey very simple. Just tell am say you no be that kind person, notin hard for that one. Just tell am. But anoda thing, before the guy begin dey reason you as olosho, I believe say u self show the guy some signs like that maybe how u take dey dress, how u dey talk and other things. Make I drop matter for here for now. I leave matter for matthias