Its hard to help ppl some times, sometimes they are the ones not allowing the help to come in although I have learn that good actions do have a significant impact on peoples lives no matter how small they can seem at first, sometimes its hard to deal with my neighbors but every time I help them with something, usually tech; I feel the change on their ways like they want to express harmony and suddenly become more supportive with what ever they can, the entire process is a chain with mutual benefits