Whenever I hear this statement...
''I suffer with him when he was broke''...
What comes to my silly mind is... I fuck him for free when he has nothing... Now that he's suppose to be paying, he left me ( I know my mind is crazy).
My point my dearest sister is, if you did not contribute anything tangible either in cash, assistance or ideas, anything that is progressive or crucial towards his success,then please don't play VICTIM.
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Time are changing, men are no longer the only ones winning bread. Women are now bread winner too. So while you are performing wide duties to a single man, please try to think of your own ENTITY.
The only reason why you feel hurt when a guy left you or dump you is because you abandoned yourself in his shadow. You lost yourself in him. While he's staying up all night to think outside the box, while he's setting goals and achieving it, you were counting the days, waiting for him to blow/hammerl. While he was investing his future, you left yours stagnant without any meaningful long term plans...
And mind you that you drank Garri with him is bcus you yourself is broke, if not you would have prepared a better food...
That you stay in the gutters with him is not a sacrifice because if you have a palace, you wouldn't do that..
My dear sister learn how to stand on your own and build a great future for yourself and stop relenting on MEN.
A piece of advice from a concerned youth.
