Involving yourself in things that do not concern you is also a bit "ugly" but it's allowed here. But the bits you don't know, such as my history with this person, or our connections on other social media platforms allowing information to be known that is not on display here are also beyond your awareness as well.

Your input is sort of like walking up to strangers in a market and telling the parent how to speak to their child or spouse. When you actually only see the last 30 seconds and not their entire situation.

I am entitled to say whatever I wish to say, as are you, but one of us in this particular thread is doing so with prior information and one is not. So determine the validity of the remarks from there on your own.