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Many girls has complain that alot of guys do walk away when they deny given them sex, while most has been tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.
LETS BE HONEST
Not given the guys your virginity might not be the real factor why guys go away, no doubt, there are handful of guys who want sex and if they dont get it, they walk away...
In biblical record about the Ten virgins reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other five were not opportuned seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or that, they lost their virginity....
But because they were foolish and the name was fitten because they had no EXTRA_OIL. The extra oil here signify CHARACTER
Alot of girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship, bragging about their virginity as all they could offer.
Apart from your virginity, what else can you offer in a relationship?
-can you support him physically?
-can you support him spiritually?
-how about mentally and otherwise?
All you can do is to be demanding; money for bag, makeup, cloths etc
When it comes to planning for his future, have you sat him down and give good suggestions?
In his state of dilemma, how many times have you offer practical suggestion?
Can he confide in you?
Remember: virginity ends after the wedding but extra oil continues...
We all have our weakness. No body is mr/mrs perfect.
But try to be the woman a man will be afraid to loss
Be the woman he will forever regret for losing you
Build your man to your taste and stop looking for ready made husband.
NOTE
-There is nothing as best as building you own man yourself instead of forcing yourself on that rich guy
-And you will gain his love and respect forever.
I hope this will be useful both to married and singles