All those experiences should only make us stronger. :)

I actually just found out about dCity yesterday, so as soon as I get a bit of HIVE together

Definitely explore. I always suggest anyone to try it out (only costs 4 Hive) to see if it is worth it. The game is an investment though. At least that's how I see it. Plus, does't consume time (how I really prefer). Can double Hive if we play our cards right.