I have frequently heard, that the secret to a long and happy life, is to never say the first thing or the second thing which comes to mind in many situations.

The pause it takes to go from the first thing, to the second thing and to the third thing gives you time to calm down, see the wisdom in not poking bear or slaughtering a squirrel. It also often results in a much more neutral and less wrath provoking response.

We will live longer by practicing empathy, patience and restraint because everyone is armed these days and looking for a reason to use their firearm.

Practice the art of thoughtful contemplation, awareness of ones mortal nature and the willingness of others to inflict mortal wounds.

Lord give us strength and good eyesight to see assholes from a mile away!