Being single, married or divorce is a choice, which I totally respect everyone's choice, because we all have our decisions to make at every point in time. We all have reasons for our actions, some people think there's no reason to get married, that it's better to be single, enjoying their life all alone without anyone disturbing them with their problems. While some also thinks it's better to get married, they think building a loving relationship is paramount, asides obeying the law or commandment that says we should be fruitful and multiply, they think we need one another to survive as no one is totally independent.
On the other hand, some also thinks it's better to divorce when you're feeling uncomfortable in a relationship. Just as I mentioned earlier, that we all have our reasons for making the decisions we make, so I actually respect every of our decisions.
Despite all this, I'll be sharing my thoughts about all this and what I think it's the better one.
Few years back, I use to love my single life, infact there was a time I said to myself that I would prefer to stay as long as possible before getting married, especially as regards making enough money in order to sustain and provide for my home. But along the line I started seeing reasons why I need a partner, a helper, a close friend, a love buddy, one that will be by my side almost at all times.
Man has to do what man has to do when the time comes, I believe as far as you have a job that's fetching you a reasonable amount of money every week or month and you also have some savings already, with other factors considered, I'll say you're good to go. But some people want to wait till they have all their plans and dreams fulfilled, like building their own house, buying a car and having different kinds of investment before getting married etc... It's very good but it's not mandatory, if you'll ask me.
Not everyone will have all this things before settling down with their partner, we need to understand this even though all those things I mentioned are important as those are the things that makes love and life more sweeter, yet we must not forget that all fingers are not equal.
However, we must be very sensitive to know when there's a red flag in a relationship, before things get out of hand, we can always make our decisions, for example someone that's constantly going through domestic violence should not waste time to quit before the partner quits the person's life.
We all have our choice to make and I'll say we should choose wisely, God will help us.
