Virtually Everyone receives compliment or had received compliment before, for instance when you help someone to do a particular thing or task the person can say thank you and even go on to the extent of paying you to compliment your effort... but there are some that is just special to you and you wouldn't forget easily those kinds of compliments are more than money, it's more appreciated than being given cash.
I'll be sharing with us some of the precious instance where I received wonderful compliments.
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Some years back when I was still in the University, I had a girlfriend and we're very much in love, we love each other so much that we do almost everything in common, everyone tagged us husband and wife already because our love was almost visible for the blind to see.
The only problem we had then was the fact she was a virgin... hmm you would imagine how that was a problem. it was a problem because each time we're having a nice time and having fun she would wants us to have sex which am against, I was planning to marry her then and my plan was to wait till after our wedding. But she's not cool with it at all, we do have issues only on this, though as a man of principle I stand by my words.
Unfortunately after school we went our separate ways for some reasons best known to us... She's married now, and even till tomorrow she keeps thanking me for not buying her idea then, according to her she said "her husband was so surprised meeting her a virgin and ever since then she has been receiving extra treatment, care and showers of love from him."
Am happy for this, it's not because I don't like sex but my self control earned me this precious compliment, she's forever grateful for this.
I have once worked in a pharmaceutical store as a manager, my boss loves the way I discharge my duty and therefore entrust a lot of things in my care. But after awhile a better offer came my way (a government job to be precise) I had no option than to quit because the location is entirely different, there's no way I could do both even if I wanted to help.
My boss usually shower me loads of compliment all the time I worked with her but the compliment increased when I left because the new manager she hired after me was giving her alot of problem, it was then she knew the value of what she lost... There was a time she even told me she would increase my salary if I could come back but it was too late for that. I couldn't go back there but I help her to find another person and this new person is much more better according to her.
The new guy was such a relief for her and this made her to keep thanking me even till date.
Just as I had mentioned earlier that there are so many compliments have gotten but certainly one would be the best and the most precious amongst them.
The fact that am getting better day by day, working on myself and making progress in becoming the person I want to be is the greatest compliment I have gotten maybe in the nearest future a greater one will emerge, I don't know.
At times I look myself in the mirror and say to myself; "man, you're doing well, keep up the good work."
As far as am not where I use to be, as far as I keep moving, as far as am not stagnant, am happy, this gives me uttermost joy and am so proud of myself. It means alot to me more than the compliment anyone can give me, because am the only one who knows who I am truly and where am headed.
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