Life does not stop for anyone
We are all familiar with the words "I will not live without him" and "My life is useless without him". Because we usually hear these sentences. The words "I can't live without him" mean a lot. But if he thinks a little deeper, if he can control himself for a while, he won't mind! Once you feel yourself dead, someone is for you don't stop! If it’s over, it will cry for 3-4 days, then everything will start just like before! I’m saying this because I’ve seen a lot of people who break down when someone dies.
Yes, when someone dies, you can pray to God for him. So that he will be good in the hereafter! And if you think about it all day and make yourself more sick, it won't hurt anyone, it will hurt yourself !
Although I have not been in such a situation by the grace of God. But if I go later, I'm trying to invite myself now. We have to live by thinking the reality! The one who is gone can not be returned, can not be brought back! Build yourself with that in mind. And pray to God for the one who is gone. He is good in that world to go. Praying for him will work, not crying .
There was one in our house, when his mother died he was so worried that he would stay up all day dying. I tried to understand a lot but it seemed that he was dead. After that we moved to Dhaka, but we didn't find any news about him. The next time I saw the district at home, he was taken away by the police. He was in jail for about 3 months. Because, after his mother died, he became addicted .
So I say, if you cry for the one who has died, you will never come back! And I'm not just talking about dying now. There are many people who fall in love with someone and then end their life. All you have to do is think about it all the time. If you regret later, it will not work.
Telling the story of all this will not end the story. There are thousands of people who have been tormented by a wrong decision all their lives. In fact, they do a lot of emotional things then. When he suffers the consequences of evil, he wonders why he did these things and why he came here today.