Originally appeared in my blog here. https://auntieshannon.net/2018/02/17/struggle-bus-naturals-post-curl-pattern-or-nah/
Hello my fellow Struggle Bus Naturals.
So hey.....hey boo.
A few weeks ago yours truly had a wee bit of a hair meltdown. We all have them. Whether it is a setback an oops etc. My last one you can read about here, my not about that braid life hella fail. http://auntieshannon.net/2017/12/30/2017-for-the-struggle-bus-natural/
Ahem.
SO what had happened was I feel victim to following too many other naturals. I know. Y'all. I know.
So with my hair getting longer and it being healthy as hell and beautiful I've been wanting to do some styles between wigs. I've looked at braid out, twist out, wash n go tutorials galore and had come to the conclusion that somehow I had damaged my hair and broken my curl pattern.
I have been misunderstanding my curls.
This is what my hair looks like freshly washed and deep conditioned.
[image description: brown faced author, with half of their face visible and a look at crinkly black hair]
Okay so that is just what she is. My hair has a mix of just kinky hair and wee tiny coily curls. The ends of my hair will do lil ringlets when clumped but, when left alone this is what happens. Now here is where I shouldn't have believed my eyes. When my hair was shorter and also virgin, my hair had a bit more round type curls. But only when wet. As my hair has gotten healthier it has gotten thicker and my actual texture is very much a mix of 4c/zish.
A lot of the natural hair folks I was watching, have looser curls. I do follow around a good number of type 4 folks but, I did not parse that most of them are wearing/doing styles with their hair stretched.
DING DING stretched.
Stretched.
Whoa.
So the meltdown was in my air dried hair having no coils or juicy curls. Not manipulated my hair when dry is crinkly and kinky. Beautiful. Full and bouncy. Leonine.
I don't have a good pic but take my word for it.
Y'all, shit got real. I was moisturizing and shit and was teary. I thought I needed to big chop again and I worked SO HARD to nip away damage from an intense color I had, I spend so much time loving my fro and y'all....
Luckily I learned from the last time I did that shit and I did not. I did my LOC method, braided and did some research.
Turns out, my hair is fine.
I also figured out that my hair is medium porosity.
What I've figured out is that my method of just really paying attention to how my hair feels keeps it in the best condition. The one thing I think I've been doing not quite right is not detangling well enough. With my medium porosity hair that is slightly protein sensitive, it stays well hydrated if I do the FULL LOC method on wash day then mid week or so I spritz my hair with my Oyin Juices and Berries leave in. If I need to detangle I use a more intense leave in.
I need slip because my kinks like to cuddle and that has led to me having some epic knots and y'all, I had a period of only finger detangling and that is not the business. That was also part of the problem with my fail braids. I hadn't detangled with tools and it was a mess.
So lately on wash day if I'm doing the full prepoo, shampoo (double cleanse) and deep condition I will start the detaingling while I do my prepoo. That is when I finger detangle. This seems really extra but when you're already prone to terrible migraines AND you are absurdly tender headed, it works. One problem with being really tender headed is that my scalp starts to get sore and I don't want to detangle anymore. So I stopped doing it all in one go.
After that, I do a bit more while cleansing. With my fingers. Then after I DC I detangle the most under my shower. Any knots remaining I use a denman and I twist or braid each section, and I use a bit of tension to stretch my roots.
Since I've been doing that my shedding is way down. OH also because I've been tea rinsing but I'll talk more about that later.
My breakage is also super down.
SO the lesson here my fellow struggle bus loves is as always, sometimes you cannot take the word of anybody except your own.
Now my loves. Next Struggle Bus post will likely be a lil length check after my next trim and straighten. I'm HYPE to straighten my hair I haven't done so in like two years.
Until then I love y'all!!
