Greetings dear Hiveans and members of the #indiaunited community. This is in response to the promp by the indiaunited community.
In my childhood and adulthood, being impatient and talkative was the most recognized bad quality in me. Which meant I was a bad listener. In any conversation, half the subject I understood and rest due to my impatience, I did not give any importance.
To a certain extent, this has affected my studies too. Being an impatient student, I was always lined up with the failures.
As time went by, my family grew and understood merely being impatient never solves any problem. And infact in many places my arguments failed, slowly I became more of a listener rather than a speaker.
At some point of time I realized, you need patience to raise your kids. This had a great impact when I joined the school, where I spent more time than at home.
Students were my best friends rather than just students. They were much free to open up their problems with me. And I took the initiative to be a good listener inorder to solve their little issues. A learning in process of time
Too many countless moments to express when children come in running to express their vows. Initially, I was strict with my children and they never disclosed any matters with me.
But when I put myself in ease with kids, they were happy to disclose any matters they felt uncomfortable.
Let me disclose one more thing. Do you know how I became patient ? Simple.... my partner was equally impatient like me, which meant both of us are sailing in the same boat. It is difficult to move forward when two people with same character meet up. So, thatwas how I ended up being patient and less talkative.
The journey was tough because all of sudden giving up was impossible. But the result was fruitful, so now I enjoy my journey. For some reason, giving up sometimes to some one you love is always a welcoming process, for you to grow.
Wishing you all a great day ahead.