In life people always like to encourage us that we should connect go outside and always socialize but what people are not seeing is the criteria of being able to socialize.
We humans go out we always want we always hope to meet someone better than us people bigger than us to give us some connection no please give us some push up in life. No one wants to mingle with people below them most at times people in their level.
Everyone wants to meet with people that are outside also when we advise people to go outside and socialize when they have not built up their life. I do want them to seek hope it's still like doing nothing and wasting their time because you will go to socialize and no one who wants to talk to you and want to have anything or any good conversation with you because they feel that you're not valuable build your life first then you go outside and connect more to expand because with that value.
No one still wants to come close to you so that's why so just advising someone to socialize is not a general advice it's a specific advice for some specific kind of people you can always socialize when you're valuable and when you're not valuable you might seem invisible to people around many people around you and they just overlook you even when you try to talk to them you'll be like a pest and someone like that is born with them and not giving the right attention.
That is why you must socialize in the right way and in the right time and must do it well so many people do not understand this that is why when they come to socialize and they feel bad they even find themselves getting
more depressed and feeling bad for themselves. That is why it is good to build your life the main thing you have to do inside so build yourself and focus more on your purpose and if your purpose is you to socialize you can also go with the flow instead of forcing yourself to do things that does not align with what you have to do.
