This post is going to be precise but it's gonna shock you a bit but that's the fact. Men do not marry because they love you and i will show you the main reason why they do.
Women are the only ones that marry just for love. A man cannot just marry a woman just because he loves her. Its not done anywhere.
He gives a thoughtful view about his future before he finally decides who to marry. Men don't marry based on their present but their future.
A Doctor cannot just marry you because you are beautiful. No matter how attractive and close you are to a pastor, he marrys who can help him with his purpose.
Sometimes they battle between their emotions and purpose but purpose always win the battle.
Take Note: similarity of profession does not mean complement of purpose. You must not be doing the same thing before you can help him in his purpose. Find a way to support his vision.
Men cannot leave women that support their visions. Ask yourself, how am I contributing to the success of his vision? But you can't help his purpose unless you find your own purpose.
That's just the natural phenomenon of men and you have to live to it. Thanks and it's still your friend, 