I'm sure some people close to me will say that I am someone who falls under the category of being left behind for the last five years, how can I not, during that time I have never been out of my hometown and have never gone to eat in a well-known restaurant, plus I haven't Have you ever gone on vacation to beautiful beaches like Bali and so on, the simple question is, is it true that I have been left behind?
I can understand the 30s is for exploration, learning & character building, and most importantly making a decision to know who we are, and what to strive for for the coming 40s, but I didn't think that I should have one alternative way for this case, I'm more interested in leaving things as they are.
I also wonder if I have to go to the beach for a party every weekend to make me look happy? In order to determine my living conditions in what way do I also need the opinion of others? Going to some fun places so I don't go out of style, I don't think so, no, not at all.
Over the past five years I have never felt like I've lost much in life because I choose to live a simple life, so how about I spend some time shaping bonsai plants and reading some old magazines at home instead of having to go out especially in these times of pandemic, what if i go to bed early & wake up earlier will life like that look boring?
As a result the simple life that I have lived in the last five years taught me that living in our 30s and more depends on our own decisions, here we can let someone make some kind of decision for our life, on the one hand it is true that we look like a selfish man when in fact not we are someone who lead simple life, I really believe that life is what we do, normal life which looks boring will turn into extraordinary when we can feel happiness in that way of life.
I don't think that someone will be completely satisfied with the life that is being lived, as humans we will definitely set new goals in life, but personally I will always try to get more out of myself, whether it's in terms of work, social relations, health and so on.
New desires appear very often and of course I hope to be able to make them come true soon but that doesn't mean I forget all the current moments that are happening in my life, that way I have managed to feel that every moment that happens is fun and nothing makes me disappointed with those little moments, no,,, nothing disappointed me.
I am satisfied with my monotonous and boring daily life, yes it can be said that it is not glamorous, extravagant and of course not worthy of posting in the media in the hope of getting thousands of thumbs up, but this is the way of life that I have chosen, and may also be say it's authentic to who I am, because basically I live my life for the sake of happiness not to impress someone out there.
In living life you don't need to feel pressure to do more, although this is sometimes difficult because of the comparison of your lifestyle with your colleagues or people close to you, there is nothing good that can be done, it is very healthy if you focus on forge your own path in life regardless of other people's point of view.
If in your 30s you still have thoughts of traveling to some big cities to get new experiences then do it, but if you prefer to stay in your city, hang out with your friends, read a book in your room and take care of some bonsai plants one at a time. said for that you do not need to feel ashamed of the lifestyle you have set.
The most important point of this thinking is that whatever type of lifestyle you choose must be right on target with your mental state, and in this case you don't have to adapt to societal pressures because you are afraid of missing out on certain experiences, you don't need to, you don't need to be trapped. in such conditions.
So far I'm living a normal and boring life, happily I don't want any other way, I don't need a crazy lifestyle to be happy, the best idea for my way of life is to listen to some reggae music while styling a bonsai, yes it's really fun though it looks weird for some people, I live not for them and of course I don't care about their views.
