I am getting better at just sitting and reading a book, or doing some needlework, even though there's always something "more productive" I could be doing. A homemaker doesn't really get a day off, nor can she leave her work at the office, because her work is at home. I've been training myself to just ignore some of the things that are screaming at me to get done. And twice a year (at least) I go visit my sister for a few days so I can relax a bit better. I help her with cooking and dishes, but it's still different than at home.