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those are lucky one's who grew up having lots of friends and a lot of people because all my life I've spent I never have prioritized on making friends or connections.
those who have connections are the one living life while us are just doing time pass like things turns around way too easily for those people who knows a lot of people. The only thing that is better when you're alone is that you'll be in peace, unbothered and happy in your own lane but when it comes to making progress you're supposed to work on this one thing.

Go into debt but find your connections

In your early 20s you're supposed to go and meet as many people as you can, introduce yourself and find those people who are as ambitious as you and those people who have goals even if you don't have goals but if they have you will eventually get the motivation from them to work on yourself. Like when you see people around you living a better life and have ambition, you get excited too and you want to pursue those things by yourself. I used to take having connections lightly until I've seen how far people with the connections can go in just short time. Like you won't need to run for things all the time, you'll always have someone who'd make it easy for you in that situation. But it goes both way, you can't make food connections unless you've something to offer them too. It is either equally or you can fake it too make it but just get into a circle that is far more better and successful than you.

LinkedIn but in real life

You see those people on LinkedIn we joke about all the time? For running around their circles and just talking about either world is going to collapse or they'll just keep on working on things To climb that corporate ladder, imagine having friends in HR while working in a company where you're getting paid good but than a random HR connection you once interacted with offers you a job that you had no idea Connection in life works like that too having those close circles and connections will often make it easier for you but those comes at cost. We men get along with each other easily like it just takes one random conversation and than you're both friends for life kind of easy connection but to close a deal you'd genuinely need more connections, the more you've the more reliable you're since other people will speak for you. Instead of living alone like GenZ better to work on building connection cause you'd need it more in coming days than anyone else. And I'm sure those of you who have bit of experience can tell it's true. Do share what's your thoughts in the comments. that's all folks.

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