She is not as pretty as other people, nor good or fast but the other does not mean that they do not deserve happiness.
She does not need to find the perfect person in every way because she herself is not perfect enough. She finds the fragments she's missing, she learns that too much is not good, something too good is bad.
What she should do is to capture happiness from the simplest, the least.
Think, think big.
But live the simple life.