Many of us like to talk a lot while others chose to speak less. Both have advantages and disadvantages. It's more of personality than a choice. But, it's important to note that there's right time to speak up or not. Knowing such best time will keep one safe and balanced in life.
Speech is a natural gift. Many people lacks it but have developed other effective means of communication. It's very vital to exchange ideas, tell our feelings and explore the world around us. Like other gifts and abilities, knowing how best to manage it can be beneficial or dangerous. So let's discuss when will be the right time to speak or not.
Whenever our emotions and feelings are challenged, we should speak up kindly and clearly. For example, when we are sick or offended by others. Professionals like Doctors are trained to understand our situation via many ways. When we speak up on how we are medical challenged, we will be helped and treated well. Although some health challenges might not offer us the ample opportunity to speak freely, but when chanced and with strength, speaking up clearly can be very helpful and saves lives.
When we are offended or in disagreement with others, There are many ways to be victorious. One of the ways is to walk away or speak mildly on the case. Which ways, you choose, always let your points of understanding and evidences be known so that more misunderstanding will be avoided and peace ensured.
Another Time to speak up is when we are training and offering advice to others. Speaking is one of the instrument employed to train and guide others. Teachers, preachers, parents and people of various capacities trains others with their kind and motivational words. They might involve several skills and talents to impress and inculcate their lessons and significances. They are good orators and it's a blessing that are beneficial but limited to very few. Also, some correction and advice are offered with spoken words. Whenever we are helping the person heading towards pitiful or wrong situation, let our words be kind and motivational with practical examples so that it will be easily adopted for their benefits. Shun hurtful or comparison words so as not to embarrass our listeners.
There are many examples of how dangerous it can be when we did not bridled our tongue and speak less. Like the example of beast of burden like horse, donkey are controlled with bridle and bit on their mouth. With such control, the rider can guide the beast but when it's otherwise, it can get hurt or even harm the rider. Controlling our tongue is very important and let's examine some best time for that.
Although it's very difficult to control our speech, but we can try and enjoy its blessings. Silence will be golden when we hear some confidential information. For example, medical information or relationship details of our family members or friends. Spreading such information about them is very immature and can brings a lot of damages. Many people have been laid out of their jobs, endangered and embarrassed because of their confidential information being shared or leaked.
Gossiping or saying confidential matters can erode the trust and can ruin reputations. It can be devious and should be avoided at all times. Many people have been isolated or hated for such acts. It can affect the peace and unity between the people. Better, to be silent than speaking on matters, we should not or involved with.
Speaking our minds clearly at times can be very beneficial but Choosing the right to speak or not and even on what we can talk about is even more important and appreciated. Also, Maturity is attached with silence and we should cherish it too.
