There are times when life does not go as smoothly as we expect.
There is even a moment where life looks BENGIS.
It sucks, it does.
But that's when we have a choice.
The choice to blame the situation, condition, destiny, fate, boyfriend, former, gebetan, affair, state, president, economy, politics, religion, Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha, Krishna, father, mother, family, friend, villain, planet earth, the rich, the poor, and whatever you can blame according to your imagination, ... OR you can choose NOT to Blame anyone and be aware that change will only come if you do something other than to complain and blame.
It's easier to blame and throw responsibility than to hold the responsibility for action.
But success, luck, strength, happiness and change will only come in support of those who DARE to NOT BLAME anyone and hold the responsibility for ACT.
Life is ALWAYS a way to make us disappointed.
Anything beyond expectation that suddenly comes to destroy our hard work, effort, hope and happiness, which makes us sad, disappointed and even CURRENTLY LIFE.
But if we are wise enough to WANT TO SEE WHY life is BENGIS, then we will see something different.
We will no longer see life as something BENGIS, but something GOOD.
"Loh ?? why can be good ?? is not life DISAPPOINTING? "
Yes, life is sometimes DISAPPOINTING, but the REASONS behind it is not to make you disappointed, but rather to give you LESSON for you to be BETTER.
Every problem, disappointment, and BENGIS things that appear before you is the HAND OF GOD that gives you the opportunity to learn.
Japan that was destroyed by the American atomic bomb is now rising into a developed country.
Korea that was destroyed by the civil war also rose to become a developed country.
Thomas Edison failed 10,000 times before discovering the ideal incandescent light bulb. Yes, not once or twice, but TEN THOUSAND.
Oprah Winfrey was born poor, raped at age 9, pregnant at age 14, miscarriage, tortured her father, and now so RICH.
All these successes do not come just like that, but because they are DISAPPOINTED to MARK LESSON from their disappointment.
If Japan and Korea are not able to learn from their disappointment, there will be no Toyota, Suzuki, Daihatsu, Yamaha, Sony, Samsung K-POP and GANGNAM-STYLE.
Hmmm..
Think carefully: If Oprah alone * faces poverty, rape, miscarriage and torture,
.. let alone just SOAL CINTA.
..other is just a matter of GALAU.
..other is just a matter of DICKEKIN PACAR.
..other is just a matter DENIED.
As a strong BERMENTAL lover, we should be aware that life is GOOD and ALWAYS GOOD.
Disappointed can be disappointed .. but REMEMBER that life wants to teach us something through its unique way. Ways that may not make sense and BENGIS according to us.
But if we STILL that disappointment is delayed happiness, then we will not only be STRONG mentally, we too will be EXTRAORDINARY people.
Please be disappointed .. it's natural!
But REMEMBER to learn from him, because happiness will also come after him.