Every one have different opinions towards different situations , everyone have their own opinion on how they feel some certain things should be done at some certain time , we have our own way of how we feel things should be handled in various aspects of life and that determines the way we see things ir the perspective which we consider to be right or wrong in our own opinion , the same way we feel our own opinion is right might also be the same way the other people too also feel their own opinions are correct or are the right one which needs to be listened to.
We need to understand that we cannot always be right in all our opinions concerning various situations or events in life , we need to understand that even if you are right or wrong , not everybody must agree with your own perspective towards life same way not everyone will disagree with your perspective too , same way you cannot always agree with the opinions or judgements from other people in the society..
Before we make judgements on various situations we need to be very careful of how we pass judgements , many people believe they can never be wrong so they tend to always assume or feel their own judgements are always correct even if the other person is getting hurt from the wrong judgements which they passed to them concerning whatever situation they were in...
Judging someone wronly can become a big disaster to their lives and even make things become so miserable for them , you need to be careful with the way you quickly pass judgment on others , you should not be too quick to judge people because you cannot always be right and your judgments might not always turn out to be the truth and so before you pass judgments you need to ask yourself and confirm if your judgments are the major truth or whether you could be wrong..
When you misjudge people, you hurt them and cause more menace in the society , you need to learn to judge people less , I am not saying you should not condemn any wrong act or any assumed wrong act when you find one but what I am saying is that you should do your investigations well and based your conclusions on the facts and evidences before you make any judgement on a person or situation or event that exists...
Let us turn the table around , how do you feel when you are judged wrongly or when people quote you wrongly and assume the worst about you even they are not right about what they think of you? You feel sad and dissapointed right? That is exactly how others will feel too whenever you judge them so wrongly , so you need to begin to see that you should learn to be very patient before judging anyone so that you will not pass the wrong judgement which would hurt the innocent people and make their lives miserable...
I am sure you would not wish to see someone have a miserable life because of your wrong judgement towards them ..