Hmmm, you will say what do I mean by this title I tagged this my write up to be "Love is not enough" yes love is not enough, Love is often considered the foundation of any successful relationship or marriage. While love is a crucial element, it's essential to acknowledge that it's not enough to sustain a relationship on its own. Relationships involve two complex individuals with unique experiences, perspectives, and expectations, making it necessary to consider factors beyond love.
with my little experience in a relationship I can boldly say love is not enough in any relationship or marriage. I have read books on marriage and also study some marriages in real life sense and that gives me a bold impression that love is not enough. I have seen countless couples once loved themselves In fact they behave like cats and rats and people envy their marriage but in the end it later ends with divorce.
What could be the cause? Can we say some of those relationships are built on fake love, just my assumption or what can make a once strong love bound relationship end in a great mirage? I don't know either, or do you? But one thing I know about relationships is that it involves a delicate balance of emotions, needs, and desires. Love can bring people together, but it's the everyday efforts and compromises that keep them together. Relationship needs much effort, as we don't know each other well enough before engaging, don't get me wrong here coz someone is already thinking how will you enter a relationship you don't know your partner am not saying you don't know I said " you don't know each other enough" you can't even know each other finish you only get to know more of each other on the long run, some will have enter marriage before some other characters which seems new begins to unveil and you will be like so you get this kind of character. In this stage you need much more effort to keep your marriage. I remember someone talking about marriage sometimes back and he define marriage to be manage at first I was like what's is the man saying but when I get to study some marriages and I knew truly it's manage, in the sense that love can be intense and all-consuming, but it's not a constant state. Relationships require: Effort and commitment, partners need to put in effort to maintain and nurture their relationship. Not only that you also need growth and adaptation, yes relationships evolve, and partners need to adapt to changing circumstances as conflict may arise at any time and you will need conflict resolution wisdom. Conflicts are inevitable, and effective conflict resolution strategies are essential. And lastly here Mutual support, partners need to support each other's goals, dreams, and aspirations.
While love is a vital component of any relationship or marriage, it's not enough to sustain it on its own. Relationships require effort, commitment, communication, trust, and compromise. By acknowledging the complexities and challenges of relationships, partners can work together to build a strong, resilient, and fulfilling connection. By recognizing that love is just one aspect of a relationship, partners can focus on building a foundation that will support them through life's ups and downs.
