Both...though the frantic tedium avoidance has been winning lately ^_; I am back into it nnow though :)

Flower arrangements are beautiful, I just have this thing about watching them dying in the corner x_x much prefer plants (the flowers budding, opening and then wilting on the plant doesn't bother me nearly as much).

Unsolicited or otherwise I think that's always a good reminder. I do appreciate my folks which is why mother dearest got her flowers.

Aww [hugs] :< I'm very much not looking forward to that particular phase of life.