a 35-42 year old who is post economic (which should be post-economic) and still single without kids or previous marriages or engagements, but still has a history of serious commitments, is going to be a rare find.

I was just discussing that with J after reading the list XD

That alone would nix her from the list of most intelligent, wealthy, healthy men.

I do remember some people doing their lists on Facebook back in the day (not that prevalent at the time but maybe I just didn't pay much attention to the people who were doing it as they tended to be the kind of people that "just wants someone to pay for her life, and accept her as she is", there were some slight variations for guys as at the time some backwards weirdos "trad gender roles" types still thought it was "weird" if a female partner in a hetero couple was the main breadwinner) and I wonder if there was a genuine belief that someone would somehow stumble across that list and think I tick all those boxes we're perfect for each other.