You are absolutely being too sensitive about it XD Also if she turns out to be a climber a fall from climbing out of that is going to be worse than a tumble from your bed, just saying and not speaking from experience >_> (caught mine climbing I don't even know why an entire side freaking panel was missing and there was no reason whatsoever to climb except for the sake of it maybe).

Ahh she's so damn cute, love the sprawly "this is mine" pic XD Try the sidecarring, more room for everyone then and she can always just hop back if she wants :)