Its because everything was handed to them that they are looking for something that would make them feel excited. But what if, they were taught how to handle things on their own? What if there's no one to help them? I'm sure they will learn from it. But if it's easily handed, they will really take everything for granted. They will surely have a hard time once everything's taken from them. And for sure, that's when they will learn their lesson. I really think your mother should step up and teach them how hard life can be, while its not too late yet. But anyways, coz you know the struggles of life, i'm sure you can survive whatever is thrown to you. You have more strength too. And thats whats amazing when you have real life experience, all coz you decided to have a not so easy but fun adventure on your own ᕦ⊙෴⊙ᕤ