The story, At a restaurant, there is a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and landed on a woman.
He started screaming in terror.
With a panicked face and a trembling voice, he started to jump, with both his hands struggling to get rid of the cockroach.
His reaction was contagious, as everyone in his group also became panicked.
The woman finally managed to push the cockroach away but ... the cockroach landed on the shoulders of another woman in the group.
Now, it is the turn of another woman in the group to continue the drama.
A waitress rushed forward to rescue them.
In a session of throwing each other, the next cockroach falls on a female waitress.
The lady waiter stood up, calmed herself and observed the cockroach behavior on her shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed the cockroach with his fingers and tossed it out of the restaurant.
Then whether the cockroach is responsible for their splashy behavior?
If so, then why is the waitress undisturbed?
He handles the event with near perfect, without any confusion.
So,
"Then what can we get from that incident?
Why are the two career women frantic, while the waitress woman can calmly chase away the cockroaches?
It was obviously not because of his cockroach, but because the response was what was decisive. The inability of both career women in the face of cockroaches is what makes the cafe atmosphere so chaotic.
Cockroaches are disgusting.
But he will stay that way forever.
You can not change the cockroach to be funny and adorable.
Likewise also with the problem.
Street jams, or a nagging wife, a traitorous friend, a powerless boss, a non-conforming subordinate, a big target, a tight deadline, a demanding customer, a disturbing neighbor, and so on.
Until whenever it will never be fun.
But that's not what messed things up. Our inability to deal with what makes it so. "
What bothered her was not a cockroach, but her inability to cope with the disruption caused by the cockroach.
There we realize that, it is not our father's screams or our boss or our wives are bothering us, but our inability to handle the disturbance caused by their shouts is disturbing
Our reaction to that problem actually creates more chaos in our own lives.
What is the wisdom behind this inspirational story.
The women reacted, while the waiter responded.
Reaction is always instinctive while the response is always well thought out.
A wonderful way to understand LIFE.
People are HAPPY not because everything is going right in their life ..
He is HAPPY because his attitude in responding to everything in his life is true ..!
"The problem is a problem ..... RESPONSE we will determine how the end of a problem ...."
Events that happen are not important, the most important is our attitude to respond to events that occur.
What is the happy attitude we choose, or the sadness we take.
Happiness is the choice, why do we choose sad ?.
Face it all, and choose happy happy.
So .. good morning .. and happy activity. GET THE BEST.
Regards @rosmi