Yea, you didn't say that in your post -- You mentioned the give and take, and you were more focused on calling out abuses and such.

Portugal sounds fun.

I think my post was just coming from a place where I have looked around, and haven't seen anything about people being like "fuck yea, I took money out and it was great, here's what I did."

There's always this tone of regret when they share or something like that. Seems kind of silly.