Shiva -- seen here being a simp.

Seems like women get on after Kali as a source of power, because she sort of exemplifies the ultimate self-righteous emotionally violent rage, which is kind of a compensation for living in a rape society.

Make sense.

Destroyer is pretty crucial role.

I'm fond of the "Destroying Angel" trope myself.

I'd be curious what Kali is doing for your development, what you're learning about yourself, and how you see Kali as teaching you.