True, AS much as I can I stay away from external stressors especially those people who don't see my worth and don't respect me even if they are my family or siblings. What matters most is my own family and that's my husband and my children. I PRIORITIZE GOD, MY HUSBAND, my children and myself. I learned also to share my blessings to those people who are really strivings for food. Rather than sharing with a friend or ungrateful family members that would only caused me self conflict thinking what have I done wrong or right? Its a way of choosing to be a blessing also to others.