Maybe you would like greater social confidence, if this is applicable for you then you will want to set a plan to get out more often and do more socializing, reading a book on social confidence will only take you so far, because the more you go out and interact with people the more natural it will feel, you will stop feeling so nervous and realize there is
nothing to be worried about, in fact you might even start to enjoy it.
For example, if you feel nervous when speaking in groups you can go on a public
speaking course. When the course finishes you will almost certainly feel more confident when speaking in front of others. You need to be aware of what it is that would give you more confidence, or what activity you would like to feel more confident taking part in.
Are there some situations where you need more confidence? Is it an activity that you
have never done before? Is it time to gain some real world experience which will help you develop your confidence? First and foremost be aware of the situation where you would like to have more confidence. Where would it really make a big difference in your life?
