exact @pipoune. and then you who are against this society, you who are rebellious and nonconformist, do not let others' judgment condition your life. it is only someone's judgment, of course one can take it into consideration, as an advice, but it is not the truth. it is an interpretation of the truth: everyone has his own and must be respected. What happen? that whoever has a big voice silences the most fragile, who feel lonely and marginalized. but they must understand that this is not the absolute truth, they are ok like the others, indeed maybe more because they do not need to scream.
try to take a look at this too: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle