My friend passed 50 years of age on that day. I asked, reaching this age in yourself, what are you experiencing some changes?
The friend replied ... After giving love to his parents, siblings, husband-wife, children and friends all this year, just started to love myself. Yes, I'm changing.
After a long time I realized that I am not a map that all the world will stand on me. So, I'm shifting everyone down.
Nowadays I do not go to the shops, go to the market, and do not quarrel with each other. Because I have learned to understand that if I spend more than four paisa, I will not be poor. Rather, if the person is sweating his head in hopes of earning more than two times, he can spend his daughter's education costs twice. Really, I'm going to change.
Nowadays, I do not wait for the retailer to come down from the car. The person who earns the day, if he gets more money, he may smile on his face. I am giving a change in the hope of that laugh.
The elderly people hear the same story repeatedly and do not say I have heard many times. Learned to understand, these stories contain their past memories, which bring some joy to their stagnant life. So, I do not get bothered to hear them speak like before.
Seeing the flaws of the people, we do not have to fight back and struggle before correcting it. Because I have learned to understand, it is not my responsibility to repay people all over the world. Rather, the peace of my mind is much more expensive to me.
Yes, I've changed. Now I congratulate the people for no reason, they appreciate them, I find myself enjoying the joy of those who find pleasure, I am also happy.
If someone ignores me, I do not get humiliated as before, move away from them. I understand that they may not understand my value, but I know that I am invaluable to me.
Nowadays when unexpected expression makes me feel ashamed now. Because I have learned that these emotions introduce me as 'man' to myself.
Now I do not hold my own ego. I understand, the ego push people into loneliness. Rather, it leaves the relationship beautiful.
Everyday lives on the last day of life, so I have learned how to live every day enjoying life by enjoying each moment of the day.
I have felt through my heart, I do not have to depend on others to please myself. No one is responsible for my happiness. I am completely responsible for my happiness, my happiness. Yes, I'm changing, at this age, I have learned to understand the real meaning of life. So inside me there is a change.
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