but I really think we all need to get out of reach of most people sometimes to reflect on life

That's what I try to focus on bhai, but some people just don't get it. We're not teenagers anymore, we can't hang around and spend time "adda-ing" like we used to. Back then our lives were quite the same, study, hang around, kill some time, that was 90% of it. But now everyone's living a whole different life, and not everyone has as much free time.