true what you said, I can remember how we always argue and fight with my older brother, who taught me how to not keep malice after a fight or argument, I use to be surprise how he will come back to play with me almost immediately after a fight. I too haven't being involved in a fight, the only time I would have, I immediately turned it into play because I would have been beating into pop, it is good to walk away from fight and not to engage in fights. keeping malice is a terrible thing and will only do harm to you as you have mentioned. thank you for sharing.