Love can create feelings but love is not feelings. Feelings are temporary disposition based on something that sounds pleasant. Building anything on feelings and emotions is a guarantee for failure and heart breaks.
The four dimensions of love are;
Passion
The prove that you are passionate about a person or something is called pursuit. Anything that shames and doesn't allow you to pursue drop it.
Commitment
The willingness to give yourself, it is seen as the staying power to be willing to stay faithful. it is a state of been dedicated. It is also an engagement or obligation to someone or something that restricts freedom of action
Pleasure
If you must manifest true love you must note this point. Pleasure is delight and gratification. Pleasure is the satisfaction derived for what is to ones like and It brings satisfaction. If there is no pleasure in what ever you are doing you will feel cheated.
Sacrifice
Giving up something you consider valuable for the sake of someone or a better course. sacrifice talks of constraints, inconveniences and pain (the language our generation don't know again). Show us the sacrifice you have done for the sake of your friends, husband, wife, children and family as a prove of love. Without sacrifice there is no love. Love is a measure of sacrifice.
That is why you see a mother saving up her money just to make sure she assist her children, she would prefer not dressing up with best clothes just to make sure their children have good clothes. A father saves up the money he intended to buy an expensive car just because he sees light in his children's future.
You don't know love if you miss this point Even Jesus paid it on the cross for love
What then is love?
Seeing that love is not feelings, emotions, pretty face, ability to cook well nor the prayer favour of a man, What then is love?
Love is a choice, It is the ability to choose something regardless the state its in. when you say you love a lady or a guy or anything it means you choose him/her. This is a choice you have made for life. When you love something you don't give up because its a choice you have made. Many ladies and guys who claim to love so many ladies or guys means they don't have choice.
Any relationship whose power to choose is taken away is ungodly.
Love is understanding the value, worth, significance of a thing to God, yourself and to humanity.
Do not accept someone whose significance in your life you do not perceive.
