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A wake-up call!
¡The family deformation that exists in the world today is incredible!. Certainly the new families that are forming are satisfied with the pressures of the cultural baggage of the country that is lived, of what imposes the fashion and the concepts above all emitted through the media and the remnants that we bring and we learned in our breeding.
The statistical data of recent times show us that young people of good Christian homes are yielding to the pressures of our society. It is painfully obvious that many of our young people have lost the ability to distinguish between what is good or bad.
It seems that in this generation people are tired exhausted bitter and do not have time for anything even for their family and children adolescents and young people are the most affected by the lack of time of parents and this is because the values do not they are taught at home in which children learn incidentalyl
It is evident that in this time of change and transformation children spend more time with their peers and get involved in social networks than with their parents.
In this order of ideas there is a direct call to parents, especially Christians. I want you to understand that if this world is going to survive it will be because the spouses and parents start from today to put their families at the highest level of priority and because they are going to reserve some of their time, effort and energy for driving their own homes .
Parents remember that values are taught at home in family union . If the parents do not do it, someone will do it for us.
A study showed that parents spend no more than 37.7 seconds per day with their children. What can you tell your children about the principles values the meaning of life and the God that you love in 37.7 seconds? Only Hello! See you later!
Another case is that parents separate and divorce without thinking about the terrible damage they do to children because they think only of themselves guided by their personal selfishness.
¿When will the last days of our life reach us what concept will our children have of us?
I want to remember the words spoken by the DR. James Dobson, taken from the video Where is dad ?.
"I am convinced that the accumulation of wealth, even if I could have achieved it, is not enough reason to live in. When the end of my days approaches from one moment to another I will look back and I will have to find something more important than the search for houses and other material goods, fame is not of lasting value, I will consider that my earthly existence has been useless and empty but I can remember the love of my family, a solid investment in the lives of other people and a real commitment to serve the God who He created me, that and nothing else makes much sense. "
¡Certainly this is wonderful. Investing in the family is one of the most beautiful things in life!
In this order of ideas I want to leave a humble advice to all parents who will have the opportunity to read this reflection.
Advice
Dedicate quality of time to your children since surely if you are like most of the parents of the 21st century you can not tell them amount. A benefit to transmit the values of God expressed in his word. (Deuteronomy 6: 6-). "And these words that I am commanding you today will be on your heart;
and you shall teach them to your children, and you shall speak of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up. "
Teach everything you can (Deuteronomy 4: 9) about God of the life of the sport of healthy distraction "Therefore, beware, and guard your soul diligently, so that you do not forget the things that your eyes have seen, neither depart from your heart all the days of your life, but you shall teach them to your children, and to the children of your children. " even talk about your bad experiences (proverbs 22 :) "Train the child in his way, and even when he is old he will not turn away from him".
Cast it, rebuke it, correct it, exhort it, but ... do not curse it, do not destroyit. Remember that your words have more power than your hands and feet. (Proverbs 19:18) "Punish your son as long as there is hope, but do not hurry your soul to destroy it"
Amalos (ICorinthians 13: 4-8) "Love is long-suffering, it is kind, love is not jealous, love is not boastful, it is not puffed up;
He does not do anything wrong, he does not seek his own, he does not get irritated, he does not hold a grudge, he does not enjoy injustice, but he enjoys the truth.
Everything suffers, everything believes, expects everything, supports everything.
Love never stops being; but the prophecies will end, and the tongues will cease, and the science will end. "
Do the best you can. If you do it for sure everything will end well there is a very high possibility that it will be so. But if not your conscience will be quiet (Romans 2: 13-16).
Remember to look for help on time when you need it. Never stop asking for help. You never know if they are about to give it to you.
Remember that from us parents depends on building a better society in which our children can live, which is why we can not isolate or isolate them.
We live in a world that needs God a world that has to be touched and changed by the power of God and the values of God otherwise we will live full of terror and uncertainty for what may happen to our children.
I think the most important thing that God has given you in this land is the family. ¡Take care of it! another will not do it for you