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I don't understand how everything we dreamt of, suddenly change in a twinkle of an eye or is it that it isn't good to always make a wish abi kini kin ' so ( what should I say ). We have had so many sweet dreams of becoming this and that but a little mistake , not even a mistake ,but a conditioned circumstances eventually made our dreams became a nightmare.
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I could remember my peers those days in secondary school , the likes of ... ( DON'T MENTION NAMES ) etc. We all had dreams. Many people dreams stopped accelerating not because it can never be achieved but because they tend to be weigh down by their present conditioned or unconditioned circumstances.
She always tell me she had the dream of marrying a comfortable and successful man, she also said she herself is working to make sure she gets being a professional or occupational that is being respected by all members of her families, her peers and even her admirers. At that time ,you can see clearly in her eyes that she is ready to make her parents / sponsors proud of her.
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She's isn't the only one with this kind of hope and wishes ,likewise everyone of us. We hoped to school , study in an institution seen as reputable, recognised and accepted by all.. all we mentioned at that moment was only the voice of University !!! You can never see any one with the mindset of being admitted into polytechnic, you try tell someone may God make certain polytechnic admit you, all you see as reaction is annoyance from that person.
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Before I transgress, I want us all to now see that , the girl who hoped to have an elaborate, recognised and admired wedding and marital home ended up getting pregnant immediately after our secondary education... She became frustrated that her other dreams became a nightmare. Please I want to ask, is getting pregnant after school a problem ?, Should that be unconditional problem weigh one down? At this time , I say haba why would you eventually get pregnant immediately after your secondary education? , It certainly shows you are wayward and a spoilt child. Spiritually, going through the lane of righteousness especially from the holy scriptures , any child who has matured is rip and enough to go into marriage but these days if you haven't finalised your overall Education, you can't be married although engagement of the ring may be allowed, but today isn't a day to focus on Bible study or Islamic study , we don't want a dichotomy of a religion being superior to that of another , to hit the nail on the head , all we are saying is ,why should something conditional or unconditional affect our dreams ?
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She forgone all her alternative dreams , she became a mother and today she is always indoor relying on the struggle of her man. She called me on phone one day, I asked about her well being then she made me realised everything. I told her, it's never too late even when it seems too late... but one thing I did applaud her for, is the fact that she listened and tried to redeem her dreams.
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Many people have been motivated , inspired and influenced to stand upright but all they do is listen but fail to actualise it. It's not that they can't actualise it but they feel shy of what others below their level could say or what does at their stage at one point in time could do seeing them starting afresh but to be candid, there is no crime in starting all over again or continuing a dumped dream.
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Look at me, I had the intention to become a biochemist yet am here today studying mass communication. Does that mean I cannot still become that? Well, some say whatever situation we find ourselves today is the work of destiny inorder to make us great but am saying it now that if you depend on destiny for your dreams to become a reality, you may end up being in disarray. God himself said work and pray and not just pray, it's a direct statement meaning that your desiredness and passion for Excellency gingers your destiny to become a reality.
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Well, am proud she has continued her education...despite having two child, she now works in a reputable organization which I won't mention the name. She is now a pillar to the foundation of her husband struggle... Mister man, Mistress Woman, it is never too late to continue or begin again even if it seems too late.
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Never let unconditional or conditional circumstances weigh you down. Pregnancy shouldn't be an excuse for not achieving your dreams...You impregnating someone shouldnt be an halt to your becoming what you hoped to become...I am not advising you to get someone impregnated or be impregnated , I am only saying no matter the condition, it is never too late to achieve your dreams, even when it seems late because the word late doesn't mean end , it only mean delay... So as long as it's about being delayed , it doesn't mean you cannot make your dream a reality. All am saying in a nutshell is
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L- Let's
A- All
T- Try
E- Executing it again
Even when it is too late.
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Good morning, afternoon, evening, night....depending on the time in your country as regards the moment you are reading this. Live freely