I do not like red flag In whatever I do, be it in a relationship or all other life dealings, once I see that a particular thing has started surfacing red flag, I will overlooked the thing and know that, it has come to the end of it for me to be doing it.
I like to have myself around good energy, and if I see that, the relationship is one that seized it, I will take myself out of it.
Therefore, In my words, I think red flag are when someone brings money first, into a relationship and then, believe that without it, he/she can not continue again.
We are able to go to places, do things we desire for, when we have money, but on the aspect of a relationship, i think money should be aside at the initial time, maybe later on, it comes in, because if something like that is considered before a relationship, we will see from there that the relationship is made of back minds.
And by the time the money is not there anymore, they are going to have a quicker split up.
Obedience is also one thing i seek out for, you see a person who claims to be in a relationship with another, yet has never a time taken advice from the person, now In that case, just asked yourself, "where are they heading to ?". Because as long as I know, we needs to take some of our partners words.
The deal is that, they are not going to give us wrong advice, but will tell us what they see is going to be good for us.
If i am in a relationship and the person do not listened to what I see, I will take it as a red flag, because, I will then understand that, we do not have things in common, if we do, the person will have been able to understand my point.
Let not also forget, apart from the fact that, it is not good to bring money out first when In a relationship, it is not also good to hide individual wallets/bank from partner's, and it can be really unfair, assuming it were married couples.
Banks and funds should not be hidden to one another, and if something like this goes on, then, where is the trust in the relationship, it has to be open and we should feels safe In the hands of the person's for ourself.
I can't hide what I have from the person I love, because she might see it as a red flag if I did.
