For a lot of people, if not morals, I do not know how their life would have been today, I mean, for any child to walks good paths, he/she must be obedience which is also moral that we got from home at the early stage of our life's.
When I was a kid, children's who were stubborn really got beaten up by their parents, because it's not any parents wish to have a child who refused to obey what he/she is told not to do.
Talking of me, I was a very stubborn boy, I never listened to advises and, no matter who asked me to behave in the house, I guessed, that would be a time, I realized that people are watching my styles, and I will even increase the volume of my play.
Not like members of the house stop a child from playing on purpose, but mostly, they do not like it when children make nosie when they were in the middle of an important discussions.
I have a nephew who used to disturb so much, but with the way I relate with him, he find's it easy to behave when I am around, I have never used cane on him but i do not know how it all started, because with what I understand, he never disturb when I am around, and if, he wanted to start it, once they told me that I will come there, he will just behaves himself.
It came to a point, i felt like, I did not allowed him to enjoy his childhood, because he was so nervous of me, but so many people opinion were that, it is good for him not to feels that nobody are going to beat him, even if we wouldn't want to used cane on him, he should have that feelings of discipline, because in our home's, we don't used cane, we look people in the eyes and anybody understand what he/she are to do.
My sister proposed that my nephew start a police school but after some months, he was not showing interest in going to the school, he complaints so many times that he has missed his friends in his former school, so he wants to go back.
He was taken to his former school and he study there, but now, he is seven years old, he doesn't disturb a bit, he knows when to do something's and if at any point, someone talk to him about something, he would do exactly what he is told to do.
When a child lives with elders who knows how to make him/her behave, he would surely has good moral, because no home would want to raise their child to become a bad mechanic in the society.
But when someone grow up to become an adult, the deal is, he/she doesn't need to be guided on what is wrong or right, he knows the four corners, so the truth is, the person can as well set his morals and lived with it.
Thanks for reading, see you in my next post, cheers
