Humans are very very funny set of people. They will say 'you know pastor, I'm no longer blessed by your messages', 'this church does not show love', "this church does not care at all", in fact nobody visits me at all from this church". If you have complained of one or two things in the past concerning your church now listen; have you on your own visited someone in the church? Have you on your own shown care or love? It's very simple; the church you appreciate will definitely bless you. It's not the message, but your attitude, the pastor you appreciate will definitely bless you.After all,not many ministers preach angelic messages, probably a few do.
Many people put a lot of church pastors under pressure. pastors have a tough job. They get more kicks than kisses.If a pastor is young,he lacks experience ;if he's gray haired he's too old.If he has five kids he has too many;if he has none he's setting a bad example. If his wife sings in the choir she's being forward; if not, she is not dedicated enough. If he preaches from notes, he is dry; if he's extemporaneous he's too shallow. If he spends much time in his study, he is neglecting his people; if he makes home visits he is not a good time manager. If he is attentive to the poor he's grandstanding; if he attends to the wealthy he is ingratiating. If he suggest improvement he is a dictator; if he doesn't he's a compromise.
One thing you should know is that no matter what you do in this life, people will always talk... So whatever it is you want to do, do it straight up without thinking about what others might think. As far as it's right in your sight, you are free to do what you want to do.
