This journey is our own.
Do you still think there will be someone to save you?
Yes, they may in some your life problems. But in your bad days, when you need the ultimate motivation no one but you can help yourself.
The early you get it the successful you will be.
No one is coming for you.
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It's a confusing thing to understand. Because we usually get at least someone who always backs us.
First I thought it's my parents, then my friends, then my husbands, my relatives. But the more I'm growing, the more life is expanding, I'm seeing the individuality in us. There will be no one, there is no one who will do the thing we are supposed to do.
Still, it sounds confusing maybe. Because I usually get the argument saying, I have my bff, they will save me even in my worst.
Well, they will, for a certain time. Then when you will be in your darkest time for so long, no one; not even your friends or family will come to save you.
Let me make it a little more clear.
Suppose you are going through a hard time, mentally or in your career life. You will find support from your surroundings, they will motivate you to fight, many will inspire you. But for how long? For days, months. After a while, you will see the list is shrinking, to whom you counted on.
And why not? Don't we also do the same to others? Can you tell me when was the last time you checked on your school friend (if you left school for a few years or long ago)? Life even doesn't give us much time to check on our bff once a month when we enter into family/career life.
This is why I'm saying no one will come to save you.
It's always you who need to pull yourself up, get motivation from others, be inspired from your surroundings, keep yourself going, fight for what you want to establish, and get in life.
Humans are individual, we are connected but we are separated as well. No one is coming for you, better do take charge of your own life.