Hehe that's an interesting observation. I agree with the point that there's no point spending time to change people, I don't think we would like it if someone tries to change us as well. Most of the time, the change has to come from within ourselves wanting to change.

As I grow older, I think I spend more time these days focusing more on improving myself, learning new things and skills, rather than socialising - no right or wrong - but it's more enjoyable for me.

Thanks for the update and tokens!