What men desire most is a woman who inspires them to be their best self. Being that woman is a much different mindset than what most women typically do these days. A man falls in love with you because he knows he can be himself around you. He falls in love with you because he feels safe expressing his innermost, private feelings with you. Once a man feels safe around you, he starts to long for your company, for your touch, and for your affection. He may not even know why he feels this way. All he knows is that there’s something special about you that he doesn’t feel with any other woman in his life. He’s in love. Many women feel like they’re doing everything they possibly can to get a man to fall in love with them. But in many cases, you could be doing the exact opposite and have no idea you’re doing it!
If you genuinely want to show your guy that you’re the woman he can be with forever, then it’s vital that you understand the things that he needs to feel certain of in order for him to know you’re the lady he can count on to get through life with him.
Emotional attraction is a powerful metric that allows a man to open up, to share his feelings and connect with a woman on a deeper level than he usually allows into his life. So what’s the major error that trips women up? It’s their focus. Instead of focusing on the feelings and experience they create for the man, the woman fixates on her own wants, her own worries, her own fears. This is what bonds a man to one woman over the long term. But part of why a man will stay isn’t just how emotionally vulnerable he feels when he’s in your company, but in how mature your are in your feelings, too. After all, your emotions and how you communicate them have tremendous power. They have the power to instantly reconnect you and a man, and they have the power to push him away in no time flat. If you want to have a conscious relationship and you want to enjoy the incredible feeling that comes from being able to stay close and connected with the man in your life – even during the tough times or bumps in the road—then you must learn how to ‘own’ your emotions in situations with men, and communicate them in a way that uses their power to benefit you and your relationship…not break it apart. When you can both depend on one another to share be emotionally supportive, not only of one another but as individuals, that’s what will make a man fall in love—big time. fitting into his life in more ways than one (emphasis on fitting – don’t being too overbearing and force your way in) is also key to him falling in love with you. Once you feel like a part of his life, it’s almost as if you’re an extension of his self-view, and he’ll have no problem sharing more with you. In fact, he’ll to see you as an indispensable part of his life.
Relationships should be a mix of surprises and familiarity that never becomes tired. You love people for what and who they are, but are also continually surprised by the deeper facets and little beauties that you never noticed about them. When you still have that certain allure despite being in a relationship for an extended time, you can be sure that there’s fire in your relationship and that he’s continually attracted to become more and more invested.
