Hello Steemians! Its been a while. Hmmm
So i want you to meet my friend, my padi of life, her name is Ifunanya ( love)
She is a friend God gave me during my just concluded M.Sc programme.
Our Masters is concluded and she has gone back to her family.
Let me not bore you with the whole story.
When she was withe me, we practically did everything together. She scolded me when the need be, encouraged me and supported me in any task or work i choose to do.
We fight quite a number of times but none ever led to malice. We always made up almost immediately. God brought her into my life to teach me patience, care,love with sacrifice and many other things especially to prepare me for marriage. I am not married yet oo ( lols) still working on it. She made me understand that at times you might be very angry with someone you love that you will feel like not seeing them again but then you should not love people for their strength alone but must embrace their weaknesses and walk them through it. Never give up on someone that you love.
Friendship with her made me see myself and part of me that i have been blind to and seriously needed to work on .
We kind of lived almost like a couple but there was no sexual intimacy oo. (Lol). I can't stand 14 years imprisonment. (Lol)
I am writing this today because she has gone back but i didn't regret meeting her. I miss her so much and i am glad i valued the friendship when we were in school (even till now). I never took her for granted so did she. She made an impact in my life as i believe i did in hers and as i remember her today, just the thoughts of her good deeds flooded my mind. She always believed in me. Such friends are hard to come by.
This is how we should treat relationships and friendships we have. Value people who have committed their time for you. You may not forever be with them but the few times you have together, cherish it, value it, make it count, influence that person, make a positive mark in their lives so you don't have any regrets later.
Always put this question in mind what do i want to be remembered for? good or bad?
Always make a positive impact in people's lives. This gives more meaning to life. It is not the number of cars and houses you have that matters but how many lives you are able to influence. Make each moment count and enjoy your friendship all the way.
Thank you for reading. Till i come your way again, its Recca. I love you guys, Muaah*
