i totally understand you, its tough being in a world where people think that everyone wants kids without taking time to ask if they are ready or want one. this is a great post that can be shared on the https://alpha.leofinance.io/. its a leo thread that encourages engagement especially on topics like this. here is a link to the ladies of hive community endorsing leo thread in this community. @ladiesofhive/ladies-threads-and-be-rewarded-with-leo-and-hive