I have similar experiences.

My dad was a PM in the nuclear power industry. He raked in lots of money, and was a sort of caricature of the playboy sailor -- a woman in every port.

Every time I visited him I would meet a different woman, sometimes two -- that he was seeing behind each other.

The fact that I can marry one woman and remain loyal to her is down to my Mother who drummed the benefits of monogamy into my head since I was like 8.

My life was like a ping-pong ball -- my parents used to use me as a weapon.

Once I grew up from all that bullshit the stress seemed to fade away. And I realise in a way, I had quite unique experiences that not many other people have.

I'll take it as that lol.