I found this to be my perpetual lament when searching for a mate in my younger years. Most of the women I dated were shallow and actually behaved in the horrible way that men are portrayed in pop culture films. None wanted to commit and most were just interested in fulfilling carnal desires so they could move on to the next fling. Don't get me wrong, I've got no problem with that kind of fun, at all, but I was looking for real intimacy, and had a very difficult time finding it. The worst travesty imposed on modern women is that they are convinced that if they act in the stereotypically worst ways that men do, then they have achieved freedom and equality. They've been taught to completely abandon their femininity (portrayed as weak) in favor of this caricature of the hyper masculine (portrayed as strong, rather than what it actually is, a compensatory strategy to conceal weakness and cowardice in weak men). By the time most of them figure out that they've been had, it's often too late to find a good man and start a family.