Have you ever been cheated? How and when did you know your partner's cheating on you? How does it feel? Now another question is, how do you define infidelity? Is it when your partner is having small talks with another opposite sex? Is it when they started having fun with another person rather than you? Is it when they started keeping secrets? Or is watching porn even counts as cheating? So many answers but only you can put meaning to it.
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The first thing that will happen after you've found out that you're being cheated on is the sound of the broken trust that's been shattered to pieces. Pain, hatred, and anger were just the aftermath. Imagine giving your all to your partner who made you feel like you're the most amazing person that's ever been in their life and with just a snap of a finger, everything went blurred. Like when you are watching your favorite show on tv and suddenly it all went black and white and all you can hear is that annoying sound that's reminding you to fix it now or never. When you feel that there's no fire in your relationship and there's this chance of this icy cold numbness, don't let it happen. Make it burn again. It may take a matter of time to absorb this kind of situations in your relationship especially if you are committed so much.
But as everyone says, nothing can't be handled if you stay calm and be humble. Cheating is not good, we all know that. If you don't want it to happen to you then you must not do it too. Once you are in a commitment, you have to be faithful to each other to gain trust. Trust is the most important thing when it comes to having a relationship with the opposite individual. And the number one reason why trust is being broken is that of cheating.
Don't let your partner get jealous of other people. Stay away from infidelity. Remember, relationships fall apart when it is not God-centered.
