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Love has been given so many definitions and given so many qualities, but it has also been singled out for being the culprit of many sufferings, for this reason there are as many beliefs as those that are heard from many people "You suffer for love" or also "The one who loves the most is the one who suffers the most" in order to find a culprit and justify a wrong thought that we will always find love in others, without first trying to love ourselves.

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At what moment, do we forget to love each other?

Perhaps it was when you first felt those little butterflies in your stomach and believed you were flying up to the clouds, but with borrowed wings, those wings that you took from someone else, granting you the power to make you reach the stars or to crash into the ground, falling to a sad and dark emptiness, from where it is believed it will not be possible to get up, but generally two ways out are sought, one to shake, get up and take a new impulse to fly again or the other way out to remain trapped in the networks of pain and hatred, thinking maybe revenge; either against the one that is thought to have hurt or in those who approach with the same "intentions" of the previous one.

It is difficult to understand, when one enters a state of "total infatuation", or in the process of "total disillusionment" that the most important thing is not the other, that it is not possible to "Love more than life itself" to another person As long as there is a total absence of love for ourselves, this being the reason that we enter a never ending circle, repeating the same mistakes, falling down and starting over. The moment is "now" when you decide voluntarily, without anyone telling you without anyone doing anything to make you understand, only you, and no one but you, you can stop that circle and start loving yourself, little by little you will be able to observe how everything is aligned to that love that accompanies you that embraces you and that allows you to see love in another way.

Living love is not an arduous career chasing it, looking for it in another person to meet your expectations, nor is it going to defoliate daisies crossing your fingers to be lucky enough that a leaf gives you the good news of how much they love you, these are the true ones reasons why you always stumble over the same stone, believing that they failed you, that it was that person who put an end to your illusions and even your love.

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You have to make a stop along the way and enjoy your own company, learn to value a moment alone and savor it in all its splendor, indulge yourself in what you like the most, flatter yourself for the achievements, look in the mirror observing that magic what is in you and pamper yourself until you feel embraced by the very essence of love, when that love is discovered, when you experience love for yourself, then; you are ready to love others.

Learning to love yourself is a process, it is not a moment of our lives to achieve it, it is something constant, because incredibly it is easier to give love to others than to ourselves, it is easier to try to cultivate a love towards others than ours and the further you get away from your own love, the further you will be from loving fully and with open eyes.

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Love has been given so many definitions and given so many qualities, but it has also been singled out for being the culprit of many sufferings, for this reason there are as many beliefs as those heard from many people "You suffer for love" or also "He who loves the most, is the one who suffers the most" in order to find a culprit and justify a wrong thought that we will always find love in others, without first trying to love ourselves.

love.jpg
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At what moment, do we forget to love each other?

Perhaps it was when you felt for the first time those little butterflies in your stomach and believe you were flying up to the clouds, but with borrowed wings, those wings that you took from someone else, giving you the power to make you reach the stars or to crash into the ground, falling to a sad and dark emptiness, from where it is believed it will not be able to rise, but generally two ways out are sought, one to shake, get up and take a new impulse to fly again or the other way out to remain trapped in the networks of pain and hatred, thinking maybe revenge; either against the one that is thought to have hurt or in those who approach with the same "intentions" of the previous one.

It is difficult to understand, when one enters a state of "total infatuation", or in the process of "total disillusionment" that the most important thing is not the other, that it is not possible to "Love more than life itself" to another person As long as there is a total absence of love for ourselves, this being the reason that we enter a never ending circle, repeating the same mistakes, falling down and starting over. The moment is "now" when you decide voluntarily, without anyone telling you without anyone doing anything to make you understand, only you, and not one but you, you can stop that circle and start loving yourself, little by little you will be able to observe how everything is aligned to that love that accompanies you that embraces you and that allows you to see love in another way.

Living love is not an arduous career chasing it, looking for it in another person to meet your expectations, nor is it going to defoliate daisies crossing your fingers to be lucky enough that a leaf gives you the good news of how much they love you, these are the true ones reasons why you always stumble over the same stone, believing that they failed you, that it was that person who put an end to your illusions and even your love.

peeling-the-daisy.jpg
source

You have to make a stop along the way and enjoy your own company, learn to value a moment alone and savor it in all its splendor, indulge yourself in what you like the most, flatter yourself for the achievements, look in the mirror observing that magic what is in you and pamper yourself until you feel embraced by the very essence of love, when that love is discovered, when you experience love for yourself, then; you are ready to love others.

Learning to love yourself is a process, it is not a moment of our lives to achieve it, it is something constant, because incredibly it is easier to give love to others than to ourselves, it is easier to try to cultivate a love others than ours and the further you get away from your own love, the further you will be from loving fully and with open eyes